Would you rather questions for couples

1. Would you rather have breakfast in bed or a surprise dinner?
2. Would you rather travel the world together for a year or buy our dream home?
3. Would you rather always know what I am thinking or never be able to lie to me?
4. Would you rather relive our first date or skip ahead to see us in ten years?
5. Would you rather have a weekly date night or a monthly weekend trip?
6. Would you rather cook together every night or never cook again?
7. Would you rather live by the beach or in the mountains with me?
8. Would you rather get a handwritten letter or a long voice note?
9. Would you rather have a pet dog or a pet cat together?
10. Would you rather spend a day without phones or a day without music?
11. Would you rather have a big wedding or elope?
12. Would you rather be the big spoon or the little spoon forever?
13. Would you rather go on a road trip or a train journey?
14. Would you rather have matching tattoos or matching pyjamas?
15. Would you rather know the date we will move in together or be surprised?
16. Would you rather win an argument or end it with a hug?
17. Would you rather redo our living room or plan our next holiday?
18. Would you rather get flowers every week or one big surprise a year?
19. Would you rather watch a sunrise or a sunset together?
20. Would you rather read each other's diaries or each other's search history?
21. Would you rather have a quiet night in or a night out with friends?
22. Would you rather build a blanket fort or go camping?
23. Would you rather learn to dance or learn a language together?
24. Would you rather have a joint bank account or separate ones?
25. Would you rather swap jobs or swap families for a week?
26. Would you rather plan every detail of a trip or wing it?
27. Would you rather get a love note in your lunch or on the bathroom mirror?
28. Would you rather have a movie made about us or a song written about us?
29. Would you rather spend a holiday with my family or yours?
30. Would you rather be famous together or rich and unknown?
31. Would you rather have a house full of plants or a house full of books?
32. Would you rather go on a cruise or a city break?
33. Would you rather have the perfect first kiss again or the perfect proposal?
34. Would you rather text all day or call once in the evening?
35. Would you rather renovate an old house or build a new one?
36. Would you rather have a dinner party or a games night?
37. Would you rather know all my secrets or keep some mystery?
38. Would you rather celebrate every monthiversary or only big anniversaries?
39. Would you rather spend a rainy day baking or binge-watching?
40. Would you rather grow old in the city or in the countryside?

How to use these questions

Answer at the same time, then explain your choice in one sentence. The best ones start a ten-minute debate.

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