Deep questions for couples

1. What is my Comfort Person trait for you?
2. Which of these Firsts was the most memorable?
3. What is our Power Couple strength?
4. Do you think we met at the perfect time?
5. What's a small thing I do that makes you feel loved?
6. Which of our Firsts is your favorite memory?
7. What is one non-negotiable we both share?
8. How do I make you a better person?
9. What is a trigger of mine you've learned to handle?
10. When was the last time you felt lonely even with me?
11. What's one thing you want to fix about our routine?
12. What's the most honest thing you've ever said to me?
13. What's the one Physical Touch that makes you feel safest?
14. Which Inner Child trait of mine do you protect?
15. What's a Silent Language we have that others don't get?
16. If you could describe our Vibe in one word, what is it?
17. What's a habit of yours that I've started doing too?
18. What's a Secret Fear you have about our future?
19. When do you find it hardest to talk to me?
20. What's one thing I do that drains your battery?
21. Do you feel like you can be 100% Ugly in front of me?
22. What's a secret talent of mine you're actually proud of?
23. Which Era of our relationship was the most fun?
24. What's a personality trait of mine you want to adopt?
25. How do you show love when you aren't saying it?
26. What's the best compliment I've ever given you?
27. What's one habit of mine you've just accepted?
28. Do you feel like you can fail around me?
29. What's a boundary we need to set better?
30. When was the last time I annoyed you, but you didn't say?
31. What is one thing you wish we talked about more?
32. When do you feel closest to me?
33. What helps you most when you have a hard day?
34. What is one thing I do that makes you feel appreciated?
35. What is something you are still a little afraid to tell me?
36. What's the one Fear I helped you overcome?
37. Which Quality of mine makes you feel most proud of us?
38. What's the most Selfless thing I've done for you?
39. When do you find me Most Beautiful/Handsome?
40. What is our Secret Strength as a couple?
41. If you could Freeze Time at one moment in our past, which?
42. What's one thing I've Healed in you?
43. How do you Describe Me to your friends?
44. What's a Dream of yours that became Ours?
45. What's the Best Advice I've ever given you?
46. What's the Last Argument we never actually finished?
47. Do you ever feel Second Best to my phone?
48. What's the one Apology I still owe you?
49. Do you think I Listen or just Wait to Talk?
50. What's one Insecurity of mine you wish I'd let go?
51. When was the last time you felt Hidden by me?
52. Do you feel Supported in your current career/hobby?
53. What's the Truth you're most afraid to tell me?
54. How have I Changed since we first met?
55. What's the Nicest thing you never thanked me for?
56. What's my Safe Space when the world is too loud?
57. Which Difficult Phase of ours are you most glad we survived?
58. What's the Best Advice I ever gave you?
59. What's one thing I do that Grounds you?
60. What Legacy do you want us to leave?
61. What's the most Attractive thing I do when I'm focused?
62. What part of Us feels the most magical?
63. What Fear did you have about us that never came true?
64. How do I Change your Perspective the most?
65. What is our Secret Language word or look?
66. What's one Mistake I made that you actually forgave?
67. Do you feel Resentment about any chore?
68. When was the last time you Cried because of me?
69. What Habit of mine makes you feel lonely?
70. Do you feel Judged by me sometimes?
71. What's a Secret Wish you have for us that you haven't said?
72. Do you feel Attractive when you're around me?
73. What is the Hardest Part of living with me?
74. Do you Trust Me with your deepest secret?
75. What's one Conflict we keep having over and over?
76. What's the Smallest Gesture I do that makes you feel loved?
77. When do you feel most Understood by me?
78. What's one Habit of ours you hope we never lose?
79. How have I Surprised you the most this year?
80. What's the Best Part of being Us?
81. Which Quality of mine do you want to see in our children?
82. What is the Softest side of me that others don't see?
83. How do you Recharge after a long day together?
84. What's the Most Important promise we've kept?
85. If we had One More Hour in the day, what would we do?
86. Who is The Voice of Reason during a heated moment?
87. Do you feel Smothered or Ignored more often?
88. What's the Ugliest truth about our communication?
89. Do you Fear for our future when we fight?
90. What's one thing I do that Hurts you without me knowing?

How to use these questions

Take turns, and guess your partner's answer before they say it. Pick one question a night instead of rushing through the list: the follow-up talk is where you learn the most. In Vibly you each answer privately, and the answers open only when you both have replied, so nobody copies.

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