Long-distance relationship questions

1. What time of day do you miss me the most?
2. What is one small thing I could do from far away that would make your day?
3. Which of our video calls do you remember best, and why?
4. What is the first thing you want to do the next time we are together?
5. What is harder for you: the goodbye at the airport or the first night alone?
6. Which song makes you think of us when we are apart?
7. If you could teleport to me for one hour right now, what would we do?
8. How do you know I am thinking of you when I am not texting?
9. What is one thing about my city you want to see with me?
10. What would make our calls feel less like a routine?
11. What do you do when you feel lonely between visits?
12. What is a care package item that would make you smile?
13. How should we celebrate the day we finally live in the same place?
14. What is our countdown to: the next visit, or closing the distance for good?
15. What is something you have learned about yourself because of the distance?
16. How do you want us to handle a bad day when we cannot hug?
17. What is one thing you are proud of about how we do long distance?
18. Which time zone moment is the funniest: you waking up as I go to sleep?
19. What is a show or game we could do together at the same time?
20. What would you put in a letter you only open on a hard day?
21. What is a photo of your day you wish you sent me more often?
22. Do you prefer a long call once a day or small check-ins all day?
23. What do you miss more: my voice or my hugs?
24. Where do you picture us living when the distance is over?
25. What is something you want me to know but find hard to say on a call?
26. Which visit has been your favourite so far?
27. What is one tradition we could start that works across any distance?
28. If we could share one meal over video tonight, what would we cook?
29. How can I support you better when you are stressed and I am far away?
30. What does a perfect weekend look like the next time we meet?
31. Who is better at planning visits, and who is better at packing?
32. What would you tell a couple just starting long distance?
33. Which of my messages do you reread when you miss me?
34. What is one thing about our future that keeps you going?
35. What is the strangest place you have taken one of our calls?
36. How do you feel right after we hang up?
37. Which surprise from me would mean the most: a letter, a delivery, or a visit?
38. What does 'home' mean to you while we are apart?
39. What is one goal we can work on together, even from different cities?
40. When did you know this was worth the distance?

How to use these questions

Take turns, and guess your partner's answer before they say it. Pick one question a night instead of rushing through the list: the follow-up talk is where you learn the most. In Vibly you each answer privately, and the answers open only when you both have replied, so nobody copies.

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