Questions to ask your boyfriend

1. What made you want to ask me out the first time?
2. When do you feel most proud of yourself?
3. What is one thing you have never told anyone?
4. What is your favourite memory of us so far?
5. What does a perfect lazy Sunday look like for you?
6. What is something I do that instantly makes you smile?
7. Who taught you the most about love?
8. What is a goal you are quietly working on right now?
9. What is your love language, and has it changed?
10. What is the best compliment you have ever received?
11. Which food could you eat every day for a year?
12. What is a fear you would like to get over?
13. Where do you see us in five years?
14. What is one thing you want to do with me before the year ends?
15. When was the last time you cried, and why?
16. What is your favourite thing about our relationship?
17. What does your dream home look like?
18. What is a childhood memory that still makes you laugh?
19. What is something you wish I asked you more often?
20. What is the bravest thing you have ever done?
21. How do you like to be comforted after a bad day?
22. Which friend knows you best, and what would they say about us?
23. What song describes you right now?
24. What is a small habit of mine you secretly love?
25. If you could relive one day of your life, which would it be?
26. What is your idea of a perfect date?
27. What are you most grateful for this week?
28. What is one thing you would change about how we argue?
29. What did you think of me when we first met?
30. What is a skill you wish you had learned as a kid?
31. What makes you feel respected?
32. What is something you are looking forward to?
33. What is the best trip you have ever taken?
34. What does a good apology look like to you?
35. If you had a free week with no responsibilities, what would you do?
36. What is something you have changed your mind about recently?
37. What is one way I could support your dreams better?
38. What was your first impression of my family?
39. What is your favourite way to spend time together?
40. What is a tradition you want us to keep forever?
41. What would your teenage self think of your life now?
42. What is the most romantic thing someone has done for you?
43. What is something you are still figuring out about yourself?
44. Which movie could you rewatch forever?
45. What makes you feel at home?
46. What do you need more of from me lately?
47. What is something you want to learn together?
48. What does 'forever' mean to you?
49. What is one thing you would never compromise on?
50. What are you proud of us for?

How to use these questions

Take turns, and guess your partner's answer before they say it. Pick one question a night instead of rushing through the list: the follow-up talk is where you learn the most. In Vibly you each answer privately, and the answers open only when you both have replied, so nobody copies.

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