Questions to ask your girlfriend

1. What is the moment you knew you liked me?
2. What does a perfect day together look like to you?
3. What is something that always cheers you up?
4. Which memory of us do you replay the most?
5. What is a dream you have not told many people about?
6. What makes you feel most loved: words, time, touch, gifts, or help?
7. What is the best advice you have ever been given?
8. What is one thing you want us to do together this year?
9. Which song makes you think of me?
10. What is your favourite thing about yourself?
11. What is something small I do that you notice?
12. What did you want to be when you were a kid?
13. What is a place you dream of travelling to?
14. When do you feel most like yourself?
15. What is a fear you would like my help with?
16. What is your favourite way to be surprised?
17. Who in your life inspires you the most?
18. What is a comfort meal that fixes any day?
19. What is something you have always wanted to try but never did?
20. What do you love most about your friendships?
21. How do you like to celebrate your wins?
22. What is a question you have always wanted to ask me?
23. What is your favourite season, and why?
24. What do you think our biggest strength as a couple is?
25. What is one thing that annoys you that I might not know about?
26. What does a cosy evening look like for you?
27. What is something you are proud of this month?
28. What would you name our future pet?
29. What is a tradition from your family you want to keep?
30. What is the funniest thing that has happened to us?
31. How can I make your mornings better?
32. What is a book or film that changed how you see things?
33. What is something you want to get better at?
34. What does your ideal weekend away look like?
35. What do you need when you are stressed?
36. What did you think the first time we kissed?
37. What is a compliment you would like to hear more?
38. What is one thing you want to know about my past?
39. What is your favourite photo of us, and why?
40. What makes you feel safe in a relationship?
41. If we started a small business together, what would it be?
42. What is a hobby you would like us to share?
43. What part of your day do you look forward to most?
44. What is something you have forgiven yourself for?
45. What is your idea of romance?
46. Which of my friends do you get along with best?
47. What is a goal you want us to reach together?
48. How do you picture our home in a few years?
49. What is one thing you would tell your younger self about love?
50. What are you most excited about for us?

How to use these questions

Take turns, and guess your partner's answer before they say it. Pick one question a night instead of rushing through the list: the follow-up talk is where you learn the most. In Vibly you each answer privately, and the answers open only when you both have replied, so nobody copies.

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