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Questions about money and home for couples

Living together goes better when you talk about bills, chores and habits before they become arguments.

  1. Who is the Chef vs. the Dishwasher?
  2. What is our Home Vibe?
  3. Who is more likely to forget to Lock the Door?
  4. Who handles the Finances/Bills?
  5. Who is the Morning Person?
  6. Who is the Hoarder of the relationship?
  7. What's the one chore we both Hate?
  8. Who is the Thermostat Queen/King?
  9. Who is the Alarm Snoozer?
  10. Who is the Grocery List keeper?
  11. Who is the Snack Stealer at midnight?
  12. Who is the Plant Parent?
  13. Who is most likely to Burn the toast?
  14. Who is the Interior Designer of the house?
  15. Who is the Laundry Folder?
  16. Who takes the Longest Shower?
  17. Who is most likely to Sleep through an Earthquake?
  18. Who is the Package Unboxer (can't wait)?
  19. Who handles the Mail/Letters?
  20. Who is the Spider Relocator?
  21. Who is the Dishwasher Loader expert?
  22. Who is most likely to Forget to take the trash out?
  23. Who Kills the Spiders in the house?
  24. Who is the Laundry Folder vs Laundry Washer?
  25. Who Decorates the most for the holidays?
  26. Who is the Light Switch police (turning them off)?
  27. Who handles the Grocery List?
  28. Who is more likely to Sleep Through the alarm?
  29. Who is the Chef when we have guests over?
  30. Who Organizes the junk drawer?
  31. Who is the Dishwasher Tetris champion?
  32. Who is the Window Closer at night?
  33. Who Kills the Most Plants?
  34. Who Complains the most about the laundry?
  35. Who is the Salad person vs Burger person?
  36. Who Steals fries from the other person's plate?
  37. Who is more Adventurous with new cuisines?
  38. Who is the Coffee addict?
  39. Who is most likely to Order Dessert just for themselves?
  40. Who Cooks when we're both tired?
  41. Who is the Midnight snack hunter?
  42. Who Remembers everyone's drink orders?
  43. Who is the Spicy Food champion?
  44. Who is more likely to Cook a 5-course meal for fun?
  45. Who is the Salty vs Sweet snack king/queen?
  46. Who Orders the most on food delivery apps?
  47. Who Remembers the Expiry Dates in the fridge?
  48. Who is the Secret Chef (only cooks for you)?

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