Vibly / Questions for couples
Updated 2026-11-09

Questions for couples

The best questions to ask your partner, from fun to deep. Hand-picked from the 1,000+ questions in the Vibly app.

20 favourites to start with

  1. What is my Comfort Person trait for you?
  2. Which of these Firsts was the most memorable?
  3. What is our Power Couple strength?
  4. Do you think we met at the perfect time?
  5. What's a small thing I do that makes you feel loved?
  6. Which of our Firsts is your favorite memory?
  7. What made you want to ask me out the first time?
  8. When do you feel most proud of yourself?
  9. What is one thing you have never told anyone?
  10. What is the moment you knew you liked me?
  11. What does a perfect day together look like to you?
  12. What is something that always cheers you up?
  13. How many kids (or pets) is our perfect number?
  14. If we could move anywhere tomorrow, where would we go?
  15. Who is the Planner for our future?
  16. What's our next big purchase together?
  17. Who is the Main Character in our relationship?
  18. Who is more likely to get us lost in a new city?
  19. What's our go-to lazy dinner?
  20. Who is the better driver?

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Take turns, and guess your partner's answer before they say it. Pick one question a night instead of rushing through the list: the follow-up talk is where you learn the most. In Vibly you each answer privately, and the answers open only when you both have replied, so nobody copies.