40 questions · updated 2026-11-09

Questions about the future for couples

Kids, pets, money, where you live, how you grow old. Talk about the future while it is still fun to imagine.

  1. How many kids (or pets) is our perfect number?
  2. If we could move anywhere tomorrow, where would we go?
  3. Who is the Planner for our future?
  4. What's our next big purchase together?
  5. Where are we spending our retirement days?
  6. What legacy do we want to leave as a couple?
  7. What's one adventure still on our bucket list?
  8. If we wrote a book about us, what's the title?
  9. What's our Dream Home vibe?
  10. How are we celebrating our 10th Anniversary?
  11. What's a Skill we should learn together next?
  12. If we had to move to another country, where are we going?
  13. What is our Power Couple goal?
  14. What's one thing we'll never change about Us?
  15. Who will be the Fun Parent vs. Strict Parent?
  16. What's our Couple Theme for this year?
  17. If we could Build our dream home, what's the first room?
  18. Who is the Early Retiree in the duo?
  19. Where are we spending Next Christmas?
  20. What's our Retirement hobby?
  21. What's a New Skill you want us both to learn?
  22. How many Dogs/Cats will we eventually own?
  23. If we had a Podcast, what would it be about?
  24. What's our Financial Goal for the next 5 years?
  25. What's the Next Big Milestone for us?
  26. What's the First Thing we buy when we're rich?
  27. Who will be the Cool Grandparent?
  28. What Skill will we master together in 10 years?
  29. Where do you see us Living in retirement?
  30. What's our Couple Goal for this month?
  31. If we could change one thing about our current home, what is it?
  32. Which Adventure is next on the bucket list?
  33. Who is the Financial Planner of the future?
  34. In 5 years, what will be our Favorite Sunday activity?
  35. What is one Tradition we haven't started yet but should?
  36. What's our Dream Project to work on together?
  37. Who will Handle the Money in 20 years?
  38. Where is our 5-Year Anniversary trip?
  39. Who will be the More Emotional parent?
  40. What's one Bad Habit we'll definitely have fixed by 2030?

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